There is a generation in this country that says, "I remember where I was when JFK was shot." A newer generation says, "I remember where I was when 9/11 happened." Probably, baseball fans will say, "I remember where I was when the Cubs won the World Series."
Why do we remember some events more vividly than others?
Do you have a memory that feels almost etched in your brain?
I believe some our memories are more vivid than others because of the significance impact that they had on us, but also because of our association with them. Many memories I have from 10+ years ago are because they are important to me. But then again, some memories from 10+ years ago that I remember as if they were yesterday have no importance to me whatsoever. For example, I can remember exactly where I was when 9/11 happened. I was in Mrs. Herrera's first grade classroom at Morningside Elementary in Delano. We were just getting ready to do an assignment when another teacher came into the classroom and told her to turn on the television. I remember that so significantly because of the importance it had in the years to come. Although something as significant as that can leave a lasting memory, others that have no significance can also leave a lasting memory. For example, I can remember a complete conversation me and one of my friends had in middle school ( about 9 years ago) that was just a random conversation that had no significance. And then again at times, there points where I can not even remember what I had for lunch the previous day. It is amazing to see how our mind works and how it processes all this information.
ReplyDeleteHey Christian. Our minds are truly amazing. How about when you walk into a room for something and forgot what you walked into the room for? :)
DeleteI agree that when a something is more significant to us, it is more memorable. My fondest memories are all significant moments of my life!
DeleteMy most vivid memory is playing outside, getting dirty, and knowing what it means when the street lights come on. This is something that I see is lacking significantly with children now. When I was a kid, we didn't have the technology today so we had to improvise and use our imagination to stay busy and not be bored. Nowadays, it's rare to go somewhere in public and not see a child holding a cell phone/tablet playing a game. I understand that there are plenty of apps that are educational and some of them really do help the kids, but the trend I've seen lately is YouTube. Kids will go on YouTube to watch other people play games. Instead of going outside, getting dirty, getting sweaty, and getting scabbed up from having fun and being a daredevil like my generation, I tend to see this generation as a sit down and play games or watch videos on a tablet. I believe that I remember this more vividly than others because this was my entire childhood and using my past to reflect on how times have changed now.
ReplyDeleteHey, I think that any child under 5 years should be using a cellphone/tablet/TV. Any ways, the interacting part with other humans is what makes a child to develop their social, emotional, and physical skills.
DeleteThis comment has been removed by the author.
DeleteDevon,
DeleteYou came up with a good memory. This is because you related to your past, and wrote that technology is a useful tool in everyday life. In my life, I enjoyed a lot of technologies in the past, like the following: the PS2, certain mathematical computer games, Cosmi Software Blazing Games (1999), and many other forms of technology. One plan for my future is to design eye-catching video games. First of all, I have to become an expert in solving a lot of computer problems, in order to help other people with technical, computer issues. I am also interested in writing stories, poetry, and songs for the future. I noticed that modern technology consists of both benefits and drawbacks, so I would do my best in designing suitable technologies for everyone as a whole. I also hope that computer scientists design cool C++ programs, involving American, British, and other worldly television shows and movies, like the following: The Harry Potter Series of 7-8, modern/contemporary Disney shows, The Vampire Diaries, and modern PBS shows.
Roshaan S.
I believe that our memories are more vivid than others because of the significant impact that they have. There are lots of memories that are associated with great feelings. I believe that lots of memories that we can remember are greatly associated with feelings. For example, I can remember a conversation, almost word by word with my uncle. I can remember the conversation between me and him, when he told me that my grandfather past away. Because of these emotions that are attached with these events, our brain holds more value of it. Other memories that we have from the past has little to no significance or what so ever. Our brain thinks that events like these are not important because they hold no value to that individual.
ReplyDeleteI do agree, we do tent to remember more about things that influence our lives. I'm not sure if all of them are related to feelings. However, for sure we feel something when we tent to remember. Sorry about your grandfather.
DeleteI believe the same way John. I know I tend to only remember those things that make an impact in me.
DeleteJohn,
DeleteI truly agree that some memories are more important to others, because they affect certain people’s lives. This happens with events in history, illnesses, record-breaking, technological innovations, and sales. I also noticed that comedy is also vivid to so many people, because it reduces people’s stress, sadness, and health problems. Some memories are more vivid to certain people, because they catch people’s attention to make these same people feel very emotional. This idea involves laughter, sadness, peace, fear, and excitement. Memories remind me of Malcolm Gladwell’s The Tipping Point, because they clearly involve emotional-triggering events taking place. Small groups of people spread these events to the correct people, in order to make products, videos, and trends gain popularity. This is related to propaganda, because propaganda involves bandwagons, appeals to emotions, and entrepreneurship.
Roshaan S.
I believe that some remember certain events vividly than others because of the age and where hey were when the event happened. I also think that they are able to recall these events because it had a big impact of themselves of their family. Many of the memories that people can recall either are really good events or those that are detrimental. For some odd reason, I can vividly remember what I was doing when my mom told me that the famous pop star Aaliyah died. I was about 7 years old and i was in my room listening to music. I remember my mom walking in my room with this weird look on her face. Once she told me that Aaliyah died, all I could do was cry because she was my favorite artist at the time. Oddly I had posters of her all around my room which broke my heart even more. I can also remember the day of my high school graduation like it was yesterday. I think that I remember that even t so much because I was so happy to get put of that place lol
ReplyDeleteAww Raven, similarly, I remember where and what I was doing when I heard the radio broadcast singer Selena Quintanillas' death.
DeleteMany memories of mine come to mind that I can remember exactly what I was doing and what time it was. One time I even asked my youngest cousin about ten years ago if he would remember this moment in time. We were dirt bike riding and it was hot that day, but I still wore pants. I was sitting on the passenger side of my mom’s truck with the door open talking to my youngest cousin as he strapped on his blue helmet. My other cousin laughed and asked if he would as well, but the funny thing is I never checked up on him to see if he really did remember. Yet, I can remember it well because I made an effort to remembering that moment myself. Many of my memories are more or less triggered when someone begins talking about a certain point in time. “Hey Steph remember that one time you...” and so forth and then glimpse of images begin to play and then I can remember it. I cannot remember a day from start to finish, or at least none come to mind. I remember attending a military ball and standing on the wrong side, so handshakes were very awkward, I remember laying in my bed listening to Paramore about middle school drama, and teaching my dog command. If you ask me what I had for breakfast I would have to think about it for a minute before I even answer.
ReplyDeleteI believe that we remember some events more vividly than others because our brains have evolved this way. Without a doubt, we cannot remember every event that occurs throughout our lives, so our brains does an amazing job filtering, encoding, and storing memories. It is a survival strategy mostly; we hold in our long term memory, things that may cause us bodily harm and things that are traumatic. In this way we could avoid the some situations in the future. Our memories alert us of danger. Imagine if when we were burnt as a child while touching a hot pot handle, we were unable to remember. We would cause damage to ourselves over and over again because we would not recognize this as dangerous. This could be applied to many other situations, although there are some situations where people seem not to learn and remember, such as people who seem to keep getting involved with the same type of people that only cause them grief, and seem to keep repeating the same cycle over and over. Of course there are other factors at work here, but to the point of us remembering certain things more vividly than others, definitely a survival mechanism.
ReplyDeleteI have the memory of 9/11 etched into my brain. I remember exactly where I was, and what I was doing on that day. I even remember what the weather was like when I heard the news of what was happening. I was at a customer’s apartment when I saw the images on TV, and I remember the state of disbelief that most of the nation felt on that day and the months and years to follow. I also remember vividly the Northridge earthquake of 1994. The feeling of helplessness as the floor shook so violently that I could not even stand up until it was over. I was only about five miles from the epicenter and the shock on my neighbors’ faces I will never forget. The images of the collapsed freeways and a three-story building that was now only two stories reiterated how fragile life really is. What these events have in common is that they are both traumatic events that are seared into my long-term memory.
One memory that is forever in my head was September 11th, 2001. On that day I remember getting ready for school and hearing the television on in the living room which was weird since we normally didn't have the television on that early in the morning. I remember walking up to my mom who watching and looked up to see her crying. I distinctly then remember looking at the screen and seeing smoke and a tall building falling apart. I had no idea at the time where this was happening but felt such a heaviness on my heart watching as people were crying. Going to school that day I remember everyone was just in this weird haze, almost as if everyone was sleep walking. We had a moment of silence and some students were crying. That was one of the darkest days of my life.
ReplyDeleteSuch a scary day for all of us.
DeleteThis will definitely be a memorable moment for everyone. Every year on September 11, I remember this tragedy and feel so sad.
Deletewell to me I think that a normal function of emotion is to enhance memory in order to improve recall of experiences that have importance or relevance for our survival. Emotion acts like a highlighter pen that emphasizes certain aspects of experiences to make them more memorable. Memory formation involves registering information (encoding), processing and storage, and retrieval. Most of the information we acquire is forgotten and never makes it into long-term memory. When we learn a complex problem, the short-term memory is freed up and the action becomes automatic. Emotionally charged events are remembered better than those of neutral events. You will never forget some events, such as the joy of the birth of your first child, or the horror of the 9/11 terrorist attack. The stress hormones, epinephrine and cortisol, enhances memory and consolidates memory contents. In evolutionary terms, it’s logical for us to imprint dangerous situations with extra clarity so that we may avoid them in the future. Memories of painful emotional experiences linger far longer than those involving physical pain. There is an old saying that “sticks and stones can break your bones, but words can never hurt you.” To the contrary, evidence shows that hurt feelings could be worse than physical pain. In the words of Maya Angelou: “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” In fact, there is an evidence that acetaminophen (e.g., Tylenol) works not only on physical pain, but also on emotional pain.
ReplyDeleteJoaquin, the Maya Angelou quote is one hundred percent correct. As time passes and you reflect on people from your life you won't necessarily remember everything they have said or have done for you. Even when people pass on you will remember how they made you feel. Regardless of what those feelings are that feeling can be etched in your memory for a lifetime.
DeleteI wrote about emotions playing a role in ehancing memory as well. I know for a fact that my emotions have helped me to remember certain events because I was highly emotional during those moments.
DeleteWhy do we remember some events more vividly than others?
ReplyDeleteDo you have a memory that feels almost etched in your brain?
I believe that people only remember those moments that cause a great impact on them. These moments could be good or bad. For example, a child's birth and a family members death. I, include myself in this circle. I also only remember moments as those mentioned above, and notice that it is so hard for me to remember something of the ordinary that happened two or three days ago. I don't know if my brain is loosing it's ability to store added information as I get older, or if it just doesn't care for taking in uneeded information...lol. But, it's a common situation for me because my sister is always asking about past times, and because I won't remember I'll get the repetitive response from her, "really, really you don"t remember? That's soooo crazy! You should get your brain checked." I know it sounds mean, but she means no harm and says it out of play. However, I do worry that it might get worse. I need to start doing some brain exercises. I heard crosswords are great. Do any of you have any recommendations?
Lol. I feel like I sometimes forget stuff easily!
DeleteIt's so weird...lol
DeleteYeah, it's always a bad feeling when I forget something. I feel like that'll be the worst thing if it happened for a relationship...
DeleteI feel like we remember certain moments mostly because they either make a huge impact on our happiness or we feel humiliated or maybe even frightened. I could recall losing my sibling at Disneyland, this was when there were no cell phones and I was terrified! I could remember the whole day, and my mother trying to calm me down. Another memory I can recall is when my younger brother was hiding from my mother, we could not find him. She literally went around the whole town and could not find him. She was in panic and turns out he was on the side of our home. How she did not check our backyard first blows my mind. I just feel like we remember moments that have a major impact on our emotions.
ReplyDeleteOmg, I can relate to this, and your mom. I lose my oldest daughter so many times. I'm to embarrassed to talk about this with my family.
DeleteHi Zelina, I can also relate with loosing a sibling at Disneyland. We eventually found her!
DeleteOh no, thats not a fun way to spend the day at Disneyland. Sounds a lot like my little sister. She is always off going somewhere else.
DeleteI think "loosing a child or sibling " could be a great topic for a blog. What do you think Dr Schmoll? JK
DeleteZelina,
DeleteYou wrote a nice post. This is because you were correct that vivid memories cause people to feel very emotional. Vivid memories can include interesting jokes, inspirational stories, wanderings, difficult situations, and so many other happenings. I noticed that they can include games, making selections, and your first job experience. Everyone has unique experiences and ideas, which catch one’s eye. When I was in Disneyland and Universal Studios from 2008 to 2016, I noticed that the crowds of people moved so fast, that it was hard to keep up with my company. Even when I was in Disneyworld in 1999, I had the same experience. You can even think about all your vivid memories, and write memoirs based on them. I used to write about my most embarrassing dining moment as a memoir for two of my English writing assignments. I wrote one of them in high school, and I wrote the other one in college. It is also interesting that almost everyone has unique, vivid memories.
Roshaan S.
Hey Zelina,
DeleteYour post made me remember that I got lost about three times as a child and it was terrifying. Like your Disneyland experience, I could never forget how my mother would calm me down.
Why do we remember some events more than others? I think this happens on events that are important to us somehow, or events that have an impact on our lives. It also could be related to historical events. The fact that we hear about it on the news 20/7, and people talking about it makes it to be something very significant (the stickiness factor). I do remember what I was doing and where I was when several events have happened. One that I remember very well is the Northridge’s earthquake on January 1994. It was about 5 am, the windows started squeaking and my bed was moving. I knew it was an earthquake because it felt similar to the one on Mexico City on 1985. The one on Mexico had killed many people, and almost destroyed the whole city. Maybe because I was little I do not remember this impacting me a lot. But when the Northridge earthquake woke me up, I remembered all what happened on 1985, and I got so scare. I tough it could happen all over again. Thank goddess it didn’t.
ReplyDeleteHi Marisol, I totally agree with the stickiness factor. People repeat the event over and over again that it sticks to our mind.
DeleteMarisol, nice way to tie in the stickiness factor! I think thats true, the more people talk about it, the more we remember.
DeleteThat is a very interesting question to ask. It is true that we remember such events more vividly than other events. I think it has to do with events that are unusual to occur or events that are a surprise to individuals. Maybe even events that occur often can be remembered easily. Vivid events could have been important, happy, sad, or terrifying in the person's life. I remember the day one of my sisters got lost at Disneyland. She didn't want to get on a certain ride, so she waited for us outside the ride. We eventually, found our sister and that is something I always remember when I go to Disneyland. I think I remember it so well, because that was the first time that we had lost somebody at Disneyland. I also remember my sixth grade field trip to SCICON. It was an awesome experience, and it was the first time that I was there. I think what made it easy to remember were the people, hikes, and activities. An important event such as graduation are a beautiful memory. I think what makes it so memorable, is that an individual works so hard for years, so they can eventually walk stage and move on to the next stage of their lives.
ReplyDeleteEmily,I agree with you that unusual events or surprise events are vividly remembered. I had a very similar event happen to me at Great America. My younger cousin wandered off, reading your post reminded me of that incident years ago.
DeleteI've gotten lost at Disneyland before and that was a very scary experience! Being lost or losing someone, even if it's for a short time, can be forever etched in your mind.
DeleteThe reason why some events are more vividly than others is because there are certain events in which an individual identifies with more significantly than others. It appears that we feel more of a sense of personal and cultural connection, causing a strong emotional reaction. Typically, when we are in a happy mindset, we tend to remember pleasant events same as with being in a negative mindset. For instance, when an individual remembers positive childhood memories that triggers a positive mood. Being in a negative state of mind increases the likelihood of an individual to think about negative things.
ReplyDeleteI vividly remember an event in my life that stood with me, it was during my childhood years when some of my friends and I went to my godmothers house out in the mountains of Topanga Canyon and we decided camped outside her home which it was surrounded by woods. I recall almost every single moment of that event simply because it was one of the best memories I had as a child. Also, It was my first time ever camping which made that memory even more significant.
I believe we remember some events more vividly than others because of the impact such events had in our lives. I remember the day I came to this country as it was yesterday. The reason i remember everything so clear is because i was so happy I would finally reunite with my sisters after 10 years of not seeing them. An Event such this one, is a perfect example of something memorable which i will never forget. I remember getting off the freeway on Panama Lane and being so excited to see a fast-food restaurant in every corner. (I was 13 at the time)Once we arrived to my sisters house, I could not stop smiling. Everyone looked great, they had little ones I could play with, and so much junk food! (LOL).This is one of the best memories I will ever forget.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely those memories are unforgettable. I can relate to those too :)
DeleteThat is a really awesome memory to have. That is something you'll be able to share with the next generation.
DeleteVery nice memory Viridiana. We tend to remember a lot of things when we were younger.
DeleteYes guys, these are memories that will stay with me for years to come. =)
DeleteI think we remember some events more vividly than others because the events left a deep impact and created a strong reaction from us. For example, I have a friend who has extremely poor memory. However, she is able to recall memories that invoked deep feelings within her. A memory that feels almost etched in my brain is when my mom won the lottery (it was a tiny amount). I remember my mom as a stoic woman who hides her feelings and tries to maintain a calm expression in all situations. However, as we sat in front of the television, waiting for the numbers to be announced one by one, and discovering that she had won, she became a person I have never seen before. First, she screamed. My mom never screamed regardless of how excited or scared she might be. Second, she ran back and forth around the house while screaming, her hand waving the lottery ticket high in the air. I thought she had gone a bit crazy. I recall feeling a lot of emotions from that memory. For the majority, I was happy that she won. I was also shocked and confused to see her act in a foreign way. Her tremendous amount of joy also brought joy to me. I was excited, shocked, fascinated, and puzzled all at once.
ReplyDeleteYang, how awesome was that to experience your mother winning the lottery.
DeleteHey Neida! Yeah, although it wasn't a huge amount it was still a great feeling to think you somehow "guessed" what the numbers were going to be.
DeleteHey Yang. Do you remember how old you were at this occasion? Is it not funny how our brains could go through such a wide array of emotions seemingly simultaneously? I remember the first and only time I saw my dad cry; it made me cry also. He is from the old school where men aren't suppose to cry. I was so conflicted at that young age over the experience of it.
ReplyDeleteHey Albion. I think I was seven years old when that happened. I agree with you; I think it is amazing how our brains can process so much at the same time. That is a deep experience you had with your dad. How old were you when that happened?
DeleteI think I was around nine or ten, and I could still remember seeing through my father's sun glasses and looking at his tears.
DeleteI believe we remember some things more than others when it is in specific interest to us or is a dramatic event. It is much easier for the brain to remember a certain topic that we may be interested in because we allow ourselves to think about it very deeply and soak it in. With other ideas that we may not be so interested about we let it go in one ear and out the other. Dramatic events such as 9/11 are engraved into my mind because it was something that was so terrible. It feels like yesterday I was sitting in front of the tv one morning watching everything play out. Therefore, we allow our brains to remember interesting and dramatic events and fan out events and facts that are not as important.
ReplyDeleteJason, I agree we are human being and we are people of interest and we do tend to remember things that interest us.
DeleteHi Jason,
DeleteI agree; we tend to remember things that interest us and forget things that are not interesting (kinda like some lectures in class lol)
I think we remember some events more vividly than other because they may have been important to us or may have been the worst day of your life. Even if it seems like an insignificant thing, we remember it because maybe someone or something in that memory meant something to us. Other times a memory may be remembered because it was a historical event and we are constantly reminded of it such as 9/11. I have several memories etched to my brain. One memory was when I was a little girl and my father gave me $200 cash in one dollar bills. I was one happy girl and I felt rich because it looked like a lot of money. That memory is etched to my brain because after my father passed away I became independent, I no longer had my father to give me everything.
ReplyDeleteI remember Reagan being shot while I was in class at St. Peter's Catholic school during my 8th grade year. I remember waking up, and while getting ready, seeing/watching the Challenger explode in midair. I remember Desert Shield/Desert Storm, 9/11, and so on, but the event that stands out for me is Watergate.
ReplyDeleteI was 6 or so years old, and recall my grandparents being glued to the T.V., and distraught as the hearings went on for days. I didn't understand what was going on, other than it was very serious and remembering the emotions of sadness and surprise on the faces of my elders as they watched. I remember Nixon resigning, Ford being sworn in, and the following election when Jimmy Carter won the presidency. When this event was discussed in U.S. History, it helped fill in holes I was too young to understand, as our nation was stunned by the Watergate event and the facts that came out. It was Watergate that began my interest in politics and government, as I remember each election since Ford/Carter, as well as the changes and evolving of our nation. It's amazing to recall where our nation was in the early 70's, and where we're at 40+ years later.
The reason why we remember some events more so than others could be based on any number of things. During my party animal days, there isn't much I remember. That being said, I think that some things have more impact on us than other events because of the relevance it may impact the individuals life. I remember the day Keith Moon and Jon Bonham died because I loved the music of The Who and Led Zeppelin, but those that weren't a fan couldn't care less.
DeleteI think our minds tend to remember certain events better when the event is either dramatic or really exciting. I can remember exactly where I was and what I was doing on 9/11 because it was a completely different day than I had ever had. I woke up to my mom standing in front of the TV in shock. I asked her what happened and she told me two planes crashed into some buildings. Once I got to school every class room had their TV one. I was in first grade, but I remember that day like it was yesterday. We spent almost the whole day watching the news. I believe events like that are so easy to remember because it was so shocking and it was a completely different day at school. Other events I remember vividly from my childhood include all of the end of the year parties. Those were incredibly fun and again were different than our normal school days.
ReplyDeleteIt seems like 9/11 was something that everyone remembered very vividly. You were in first grade i can't imagine what you guys were thinking about during this event. I was in 7th grade and i thought it was something scary that the world was going through.
DeleteEvents such 9/11 will be very hard for anyone to forget. It was very traumatic for the whole nation to witness and it will always be brought up with future generations.
DeleteI've had this conversation with my mom a few times, about how there is a "defining moment" in every generation. For her, it was when JFK was shot, and for me, it was the attacks on 9/11. I think these moments are ones that have been etched into our minds, because maybe they represent a moment when we "grew up" a little bit. The realization that the world isn't as safe as we had once thought it was is something that will make you grow up a bit and view the world a little differently. However, I don't think all of these memories have to be as painful. One moment I remember that was significant in my life was the moment my oldest sister got engaged. I was ordering a burger at Smash Burger in New York. She sent me a picture of her ring and said "I'm engaged!" I caller, we screamed and cried a bit, and I congratulated her and my new brother-in-law to be. It was a brief moment in time, but it felt like it was a moment that I realized my sisters and I were no longer kids anymore. We really hadn't been for some time (she was 27 and I was 24 at the time), but this time it felt a little more real.
ReplyDeleteYou are right, i was in 7th grade when 9/11 happened and it was a scary thing to see and it was confusing for me at the time because i wasn't aware why that had happened and why they would do such a thing.
DeleteI think we remember certain events because they are impactful or historically significant. For me a typical morning routine will be blended with other days I’ve done the same thing. When something historical like 9/11 happens, it will leave an impression that you can never forget. I remember being a junior in high school when 9/11 happened. I had bowling as an elective class and was coming home from the bowling alley because I had about an hour before my next class started. When I walked into the house it was all over the news channels about the attacks. School was cancelled that day I remember watching the events unfold on television. It was very vivid. An event in my life that will forever be etched in my brain is when I was diagnosed with type one diabetes. I was ten years old, I was hospitalized for about a week. Everything I had known in my life up to that point changed in an instant. I think painful memories can be etched in your brain because you don’t experience them as often as happy memories, and they can be hard to shake.
ReplyDeleteI agree 9/11 was something big and its something that will be imprinted in my mind and of course on others. It's the big things that happen in our lives that we tend to remember the most.
DeleteWe remember some events more vividly than others because events that have made an impact that was either good or bad or something that could have been drastic. I know that i could remember some horrible things that have happened in my life or something like the 9/11. I can remember the 9/11 event like it was yesterday. Also things that were super exciting in my life i could remember all of that as well. It's the big events that have happened in our lives that we remember the most vividly. I remember when 9/11 happened. That morning i was getting ready for school and when i was on my way to school. When I got to school i was in seventh grade and I remember my home teacher turning on the tv in the classroom and we were all watching what was going on in New York. That morning the whole school went outside to have a moment of silence and i just remember it being a very sad day. It was scary and confusing because at that time i was not sure what was going on or why it had happened. When i got home that day I remember my family watching it on tv and following what was happening. That event was huge and it made an impact on everyone in the world. That is something ill never forget.
ReplyDeleteWow, I can imagine how that event would stay in people's memories as it was yesterday. Tragedies such as the 9/11 cannot really ever be forgotten for people that in some way where able to experience it. Such as you and your family, that even though you were not physically present in the event, it affected the whole country as they united together in a time of despair.
DeleteI don't even exactly remember what exactly I did when 9/11 happened. I think that I was at home since it happened early in the morning at West Coast, so my mom let me stay home. She didn't tell me anything about it, as far as I know. The day is definitely a blur.
DeleteThis is a very good question. I think the reason why we remember some things more than others are because we found them important in some way. I personally remember a lot of things vividly and some people ask me how do I remember so much. I find a lot of things important to me somehow. Trying to be in someone else’s shoes, I think that some people just find some things important like wedding proposals, first time doing something they liked, or doing something bad. The first example I can remember of something vividly was when I had to try and hide from someone because I didn’t want to turn him down. A couple years ago, my friend had given this guy false hope that I liked him when I didn’t. He told her he was going to ask me out and that there was no stopping him from doing it. I can still remember that he looked so nervous, he kept moving, and he was sweaty. I felt so bad doing it, but I couldn’t tell him no to his face. I hid from him the rest of the day. I guess that instance was very important to me because it was the first time I turned someone down, but I did a bad thing. I remember that instance and I think of a mean person, how I was so mean to have done that to someone. Some instances can even scar us and we will remember every single detail.
ReplyDeleteI think those kinds of memories really teach us about how to be a better person and treat others in a more respectful way. Initially they are painful, but in the long run, they are necessary.
DeleteThey do teach us and everything happens for a reason.
DeleteI think we remember some memories more vividly than others because of the emotions involved that comes along with those memories. For example, people were terrified and distraught during the shooting of JFK and 911. People were probably ecstatic when the Cubs won the World Series. A memory for me personally that I can play back in my mind whenever I wanted to is when I graduated from high school. Everything around graduation time, including going to Six Flags for grad nite and my last high school prom are still very vivid to me. They are vivid to me because I was feeling all kinds of emotions and they were mainly bittersweet emotions. A memory that is really etched in my brain was when my boyfriend of nearly three years now and I got together. It was the night of grad nite (spelled differently than night for some reason). We had been best friends for like two years and everyone told us we were going to date and we would just laugh about it with each other. Low and behold, the night of grad nite, we ended up holding hands on the bus on the way to Six Flags. I remember that entire night because of the emotions I felt.
ReplyDeleteEmotions play a big part in the memories that stick with us. I think it is because so much of our time is spent in mundane situations, so when something makes us feel more, it stands out.
DeleteAngela, I agree I remember memories that are vivid to me as well. Emotions have a lot to do with it
DeleteLike many people above me have said, I think we remember specific events in our life over others because of the significance they had to us. I think I have a fairly good memory and I can remember small details about events that others often forget. However, I also couldn’t tell you what I had for lunch yesterday. When I think back, tons of memories flood into my mind but one in particular was when I was 13. I used to race racecars and this race was over thanksgiving break and we went out of town for it. About halfway through the race I was hit from behind and I spun straight into the wall. I remember the EMT running over to me, taking my window net down, and he asked if I was hurt and if I could tell him the date. I knew what had happened to me and I wasn’t hurt, but in that moment I couldn’t remember the date and that scared me, making me think something was wrong. I was rushed off the track to my parents and I remember seeing my grandpa crying because he was scared for me. I was fine, but that moment of me forgetting the date and thinking something was wrong with me will probably stay with me forever.
ReplyDeleteThat would really be scary to have some type of memory lost due to an accident. It is true that memories make a person and gives them identity. That is why I strongly believe that life should be spent making great memories, because at the end that is all we take from our life experiences.
DeleteI agree, everyone remembers something that has a significance to it.
DeleteI think the reason why we remember some memories more vividly than other, is due to the impact that they had in our lives. I think that for the most part, bad memories can be more vividly in our brain as compared to good memories. But they both go hand in hand in that they may stay in our brains for as long as we can remember. However, if we try to remember a memory in which we suffered in some way or another we can actually feel the same emotions just by remembering, at least I can. Even though good memories make my heart happy, they will not be as vividly as the ones that had an negative impact in my life.
ReplyDeleteOne memory that I have from when I was a child, and that will probably continue to be very alive in my brain, is when I got kidnapped as I was about to enter the doors of my school. My mom had dropped me off, thinking that I was already safe, since I was in line with other kids ready to go inside the school when a pastor from my church approached me. Well to make the story short, he tricked me by telling me that my mom had told him to pick me up because she was joining him and his family for brunch. I was confused, but as someone I respected and trusted I followed. Little did I know he was kidnapping me, with the intentions to molest me. He took me to an abandoned house, and attempted his perversion to my eight years old self. Now that I remembered I get sad because I see my little niece of that same age and I cannot bear to imagine her going through something like that; to someone so innocent and vulnerable. He's attempt did not last long, as I pleaded that I wanted to go home. I remembered going back home after the incident. Walking the street of my neighborhood balling my eyes from what had just happened. Neighbors looked at me confused and worried as I walked crying with my school bag and uniform back home. I rarely go back to this memory because as vividly as it may be in my brain, I don't let it affect me, since I have the support and love from my parents that made me feel secure and safe. However, as I remember this episode of my life, I wish I could go back in time and tell that little girl to never trust anyone, regardless of who they seem to be.
Islia. That is such a terrifying experience! I am very sorry to hear you had to go through that.
DeleteHi Islia,
DeleteWow, that is a terrible experience. It's such a shame to be able remember the terrible things that happen to us so clearly. I am very sorry.
I never thought of bad memories having an impact in our lives as well. Of course they do, but when I think about something having an impact it is usually somthing positive. But you are right, bad memories, in many cases, can be more vivid to us and have an impact on our lives! Crazy to think about it in that way.
DeleteI believe the reason we remember some events more than others is because they have a more significant impact in our lives. News pieces about terrorism in the U.S. resonate with most everyone because they occur here, in our home. In those situations, the people that died could have been our family members, friends, or really anyone we know. The year the Cubs won is remembered because it was the first time they won in over 70 years. I think other, more personal, memories stick with us because they make us feel an excess of a certain emotion, such as happiness or fear. We also have a tendency to hold onto the bad memories more often than the good ones. I’m not sure why that is.
ReplyDeleteHi Kimberly,
DeleteI agree with you when you state that we remember some events more than others because they have a greater impact in our lives. I can relate to this because I do remember being old enough to remember where I was and what was I doing when the 9/11 tragedy occurred, but I do not. I believe this is because it did not impact me as much since it was not something that occurred where I lived.
It's all correlated to feelings at the end of the day. When someone does something wrong to you, it might be easy to forgive what they did, but it's not easy to forget how they made you feel. That same thing applies to memories. There are definitely a lot of memories that I remember due to the fact that I remember vivid or horrible feelings attached to them. Some people remember their first heartbreaks, while some people remember the first funeral that they went to. I would like to think that I don't exactly have any memories etched into my brain, but I do remember some weird commercials every now and again. Sometimes all of that just comes out of nowhere as well. Eventually your mind does start to suddenly recall stuff from time to time, and there's no exact reason why it wants to. For the most part, though, maybe you're just reminiscing in the feelings that you felt back then. Perhaps you may simply call it nostalgia.
ReplyDeleteHi Michael,
DeleteI also believe these memories are correlated to feelings. Just like someone remembers terrible feelings attached to memories, they could also remember great happiness attached to these memories.
I have a lot of memories etched into my brain that are triggered by tastes and smells. I remember the first time i learned how to roller skate, where I was when 911 happened, i remember the first time i tried my favorite foods, or tasted things that were really gross, and unfortunately i remember the most embarrassing times of my life. I think they are sort of like milestone memories, things that have alot of impact of who you are, things that connect you to others, and things that remind you of the times that were better of than the present.
ReplyDeleteI like that you have the ability to remember events by using your sense of taste and smell. That would be so cool to me! I would always want to remember anything with fresh baked cookies involved! Haha
DeleteI think what makes people remember such memories like this is because it was something big. For example speaking of 911 it was something tragic that touched the whole world. I think it all depends on how the person feels for that specific event/memory because thats what causes it to be so memorable. I don't have a memory that huge that I think of all the time. I'd say I'm more memorable towards smaller memories like vacations and fun events.
ReplyDeleteI like to make memories that I will countlessly think of. I think by having a good time and endless laughs is all that really sticks to my mind, and I enjoy that. Even when it comes to eating good food and having good company those are the memories that I live for.
The feeling of the exact moment has a lot to do with how the memory is remembered, like you said. I also find certain smells trigger a memory for me as well.
DeleteThat's pretty interesting smell can trigger memories. I didn't think of this
DeleteI think that last minute plans that turn into a small vacation can also contribute to that.
DeleteI believe we remember some events more vividly than others due to the emotions we are feeling in that moment. The reason why so many events like 9/11 and JFK’s death are remembered is because they are such tragedies and people feel a great amount of sadness. The example of the Cubs winning the World Series is probably due to the happiness or surprise that the fans felt.
ReplyDeleteSadly, I do not have a memory that is etched in my brain. I have many small memories and what usually makes me remember them is when I pass by the place it happened or something that reminds me of the place. If the place is similar or I feel like I have seen it before, I have flashback episodes.
I know many people remember where they were or what they were doing on 9/11. I was five years old but I do not have a single memory of that day. I feel that as I get older, the worse my memory becomes.
That's true, I forget about some events until I'm reminded of it. Then I feel I can remember a lot of what happened during that time.
DeleteI believe the reason why we remember some events more than others is because they were either very traumatizing or a happy event. Something has to be extremely special in order for the event to be engraved in your mind. One event that I remember the most was when I was around 3 or 4, I was walking down the streets of San Francisco with my mom when my bottle fell down the sewer. I remember how I looked down through the round sewer lid all the way to the bottom where my bottle was, I was so sad. That event for me was very traumatic. Another memory I gladly remember is one night when my family and I were living in Los Angeles, my dad woke us up at a very late hour and announced that we would be going to Mexico. It was a unexpected family trip, everyone started packing clothes and then we drove the twenty four hours all the way down to Mexico. I thinking that memory stays with me because of how happy I was and also how unexpected the trip was. Some memories are special and they simply stay with you for the rest of your life.
ReplyDeleteI agree that it's an event engraved in our mind! I feel that we pay very close attention to everything that's going on in these events so it's hard to forget them.
DeleteSome events are more vivid than others because of the impact they had in our life. For instance when I was 7 years old I clearly remember a drug addict on top of our roof. I was outside playing with my cousins when the mailman noticed the man on the roof and notified my parents. My cousins and I were so scared because he was watching us while we were playing. After that day I remember checking the roof of my house when returning home from school. That event marked my life and now I'm always checking to see if I'm being watched or followed. The impact an event has in our lives can either be because of an emotion or if it changed our lives. The 9/11 event I was probably too young to understand what was going on but I do recall how adults in my family would talk about it. I also remember how during school my friends and I would talk about how it was a tragedy and how can someone do that. Another event I recall vividly is waking up in the middle of the night with stomach pains. I was hospitalized within a few hours and had surgery. I was young but I remember being hospitalized and how painful my stomach ache was. I think I clearly remember because after that surgery my metabolism changed.Like I mentioned earlier I believe we remember events because of how they affected us in our life. They can be either associated with a emotion or if they changed our life.
ReplyDeleteI remember the night I had to go to the ER and have surgery very vividly also.
DeleteI believe the reason we remember certain things over other has to do with what they mean to us. Some events can mean a great amount of importance while others not as much. Something that I remember vividly was from my childhood. I was about 7 or 8 and I remember trying to pet my neighbors dog. The dog had been eating. I did not know that dogs didn't like being pet when they were eating. I had a dog named bingo that was the sweetest dog ever. He didn't mind anyone near him when he was eating so I didn't know that dogs didn't like that. I got closer and then the dog bit me on my finger. Luckily my finger is still intact to my hand. That was probably one of the worst days of my life. One of the best days of my life was having my daughter Aaliyah. I couldn't wait to meet her. She was a week behind schedule. if we had waited a couple more days I would have been carrying her for 41 weeks. I don't remember much after having her though. I just remember being tired. I held her tight and thanked the lord I had a healthy beautiful baby girl. But I really just wanted to sleep after that.
ReplyDeleteAww that's so sweet about your daughter!
DeleteI feel that we remember some things because they become meaningful to us. For example, on 9/11 a lot of people died and it was sad for our country. I remember this vividly. I was in the first grade and when I got home I remember watching it on the news. I believe these events impact our lives in ways that make us remember them. This also could go for something sad or something happy. If something sad happens, we're obviously going to remember it because it scarred us. Although, if it's something happy, we're going to remember it also because it had a positive impact on us. For example, we will always remember the birth or death of a person because it was one of the best days or worst days of our lives. I'll always remember the day I had to take my 16 year old dog to the vet and have her put to sleep. I had had her since I was 3 and this day was very hard for me. I can remember every detail very vividly. It was very traumatizing for me I believe that's why I remember it so well.
ReplyDeleteHello Brianna,
DeleteI agree, it's truly based on the impact of the instance that happened. Good or bad.
Im so sorry for your dog, but scary things are usually present in our memories.
DeleteWe remember things that were good or bad due to the severity of the situation. Like remembering your first time having a child, or getting married or going sky diving. Our minds are set up to remember things that brought us joy. Or remembering when one dies, or seeing someone get hit by a car or being in an accident, we remember both good and bad things by default. It is quite interesting actually how that works. Like I remember the day my grandfather passed away which has been now 5 years and some months. That memory of him taking his last breath will always replay in my mind. I even have dreams about past events. Like I remember being at school in the 4th grade when we got reports of 9/11. I just think our brains are setup to remember certain things based on the impact of them regardless of it being good or bad.
ReplyDeleteI agree, the severity of the situation plays a major role. If it has little relevance then we have little memory at all. The more important the better memory we will have.
DeleteI think that's when triggers come into play.
DeleteI have some crazy dreams about deceased people also. The unconsciousness is very interesting.
DeleteSome memories are more vivid than others, because they trigger strong emotions in almost every single person. They make people laugh, cry, disappointed, surprised, relaxed, peaceful, and even shocked. The vivid memories include genius ideas, miserable feelings, refuge, and so many other thought-provoking ideas. Even hilarious jokes are included as vivid memories, because they trigger people to laugh so hard. Natural disasters can be a part of vivid memories, since they alarm people to find refuge and save their own lives. Economic reliefs also count, because they help increase families’ incomes. There are so many ideas as vivid memories, and it is up to every individual to creatively think of his/her important memories. We remember certain memories well, because these same memories attract people’s attention in multiple ways. This can include technological innovations, and so many other ideas. I have a few thought-provoking memories, like the following: my nose getting burned after I ate mustard instead of pudding, my trips to California, New York, and Florida attractions, and my July 2011 trip to Washington D. C. These memories were vivid, because they attracted my attention in particular ways. They made me say things like, “This event was funny, embarrassing, and beautiful.” I enjoyed all these memories, and I am sure that the future has so many memories in store for every individual. In my life, I enjoyed singing nature songs for my social project in the Practical and Visual Appreciation of Arts. The four memories I listed, made me inspired as an individual from small days of my life to the most recent years of my life.
ReplyDeleteContext and time frame are definitely important factors in regards to building memories! I agree.
ReplyDeleteI think we remember memories more vividly than others because the memory has a significant meaning to us whether they are good or bad. The memories that we retain usually have some impact in our life like losing a family member, succeeding in something, or going through something traumatic. The memories that do not stick with us are unimportant things like what we wore or what we ate. A memory that I have is my trip to Mexico when I was seven years old. I remember my grandma’s house and how it looks and I remember the places we went to and what we did. That is one of the most vivid memories I have of my life. I think bad memories are the worst memories to have because no matter how hard we try to forget them their always going to be in the back of our mind. Overall it is great to look back at good memories and remember the good times we had.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you! Often times things that were also repetitive and enjoyable tend to stick in our minds.
DeleteJennifer, I agree that we do remember things more vividly because they are events that have impacted us drastically as well. And sadly, bad memories are very difficult to forget. But the good memories carry us through and give us hoy and hope.
DeleteI think we remember events more vividly than others because we have different emotional experiences for different events. When we experience something exciting, sad, or a combination of both, those emotions and experiences are placed in our memories. Often, the events that bring out the most emotion are the events which we remember the most. I believe we that when we remember these events, whether happy or sad, our brain processes that information. We try to relive the experience and understand what was going on. We try to replay these memories so we can learn from them. As time passes, we will experience more and hopefully have other experiences to remember.
ReplyDeleteOne memory that I can remember was the day Osama Bin Laden was killed. I was having breakfast at my college dorm and it was televised on a huge screen. Everyone was eating breakfast, quiet, and tuning in on the news. I remember watching President Obama addressing this event and for me it was a weird feeling. See, my father was sent to Iraq when the war broke out and at the time, I was in the sixth grade. Coming from a military family, it was confusing to understand how one man, Osama, caused so much disruption. He was the man who had a huge target on his head and when they finally found him, everyone thought the war would be over. I think I remember this moment because the breakfast was super delicious that day and it was also a national accomplishment.
Significant events play a major role. Whether or not they are good or bad they will always be remembered clearly.
Delete- Our brain is such a fascinating and complex thing. For long term memory, we thank the hippocampus and like everyone, I also think that we are able to store the memories which have affected us in a positive or negative way. Why? Well I think it's due to our emotions and understanding. If we feel strongly about something whether it's an event or someone you fancy, you'll most likely remember how you felt. Feelings are irreplaceable. Same goes with our understanding regarding something we learned whether it was what we learned in our history class or a life lesson our grandparents might have given us. If we are intrigued and we truly understand something, we might remember it forever.
ReplyDeleteI like how you connected memory with family wisdom.
DeleteWe tend to remember events that have big impacts on us. If you are into sports then your going to remember when your team won a certain event. Or when your favorite player set a record. Our brain is such a complex system. It is crazy to have the ability to remember events that have taken places years ago. Often times we are able to remember the events so well which is the craziest part about it. For me an event that I remember is 9/11. I remember waking up that morning and hearing what happened and what it was like to go to school that day. It was a day we will never forget. This event had such an impact on our nation that everyone during that time can remember it perfectly to this day. When we add our feelings, our personality and preferences all together we are able to have extremely good memory.
ReplyDeleteJoshua,
DeleteOur brains really are so complex. They are so amazing and can do the craziest things. I too remember where I was on 9/11 and what I did that day. I believe the impact it had on our country was one of the reasons why we all have edged it into our minds for a life time.
I believe major events in history make such an impact on our lives that we somehow make a lasting memory of our exact actions during that event. Why this is, I can not tell you exactly. But I suspect it's because we some how make a mental note to be intentional during that moment. For example, something major happens, at that time our minds become very intentional and purposely time stamps exactly what is taking place around us during that moment. Our minds are truly amazing and do wondrous things.
ReplyDeleteOne particular memory I have from childhood would be when I was riding in a car that my grandfather was driving. This was long before the seat belt laws were in place. I was standing up behind the passenger side seat holding onto the head rest. My grandfather made a left hand turn onto a street and my door swung open. I still remember the change that I had in my hand, intended for the church offering, flying out and hotting the road below. I can still see the faces of my sister and grandparents and know the actions that were taken directly after. To this day I put my seatbelt on immediately when entering a car.
I definitely have a bad memory, but the most important things that have happened to me are still etched in my mind. I've broken 4 bones and, ironically, each of those moments are the most vivid memories I have. I think the amount of pain made it so significant each time. The first time I broke a bone is the clearest memory I have being that young. I was in third grade and I was obsessed with cheerleading. My cousins lived next door and they knew more about cheer than me so I trusted them. We were in their front yard, which was a hill, and we started stunting. I was the smallest so we decided I'd be the flyer. It was all good the first few times, but the fourth try went very, very bad. They threw me and when I came down my cousin Scooter's arms slipped and I fell straight on my wrist. The pain was like nothing I had ever experienced, so of course I was screaming. My mom rushed me to the doctor and the outer part of my wrist was broken and I had a cast for 6 weeks. I was so devastated because we were learning how to play the flutophone in class and I couldn't participate, which is also why I think I remember it all so well.
ReplyDeleteI believe some events are more vivid than others because of the impact they had on us at some point. When the JFK assassination took place I was not even born yet but when 9/11 brought up I remember being young a listening to all my family members talk about it. As I grew older, I began to realize how important it was and how much if affected the victims. I feel like I have a close connection to 9/11 because it took place while I was young. This is what is all about, we all live in a different timeframe and are affected by different events. It also depends on how we let those things affect us, if it took place years ago and did not get to experience people being affected by those events, we will never be as affected as those who actually took place while we were physically there to see other's peoples reactions.
ReplyDeleteI believe some events leave an imprint in our memory because of the way they made you feel while you were experiencing that memory. For example, I remember my grandparents first house almost vividly, and more than some of the houses I have lived in growing up. When I would visit my grandparents house I remember feeling so excited every single time. It was a new experience and a chance to get away from my regular routine. I remember the smell of the house to this day, and whenever I smell that same scent or something close to it, my memory instantly flashes to their house. As a child their house was my sole happy place. I believe this is why this memory is instilled into my mind almost 19 years later.
ReplyDelete